Should I Ask my Girlfriend for a Threesome?

should i ask her for a threesomeWe’ve been going together for 5 years and I have always fantasized about having a threesome with her and another woman (her best friend). My friend told me this is a very bad idea.

First of all, telling your friend about wanting to have a threesome with your girlfriend’s best friend wasn’t such a good idea. Sharing anything personal about you and your partner with anyone else is commonly viewed as betraying someone’s trust. The last thing you want is for her to hear about this from someone other than you.

Many men fantasize about sleeping with two women at the same time. In order to get there, you need to tread carefully as this can be a touchy subject for a lot of women. There are 3 types of women when it comes to threesomes, one will be excited about the idea, the other one will be appalled, even disgusted by the very thought, and more common is the woman that needs a little coaxing to get there. The first thing you need to do is identify which category your girl falls into.

If you do decide to pursue this, here’s how you should approach it. Tell her about that couple you used to know that broke up because he insisted on having a threesome. Or, if you two watch x-rated movies or clips together, throw on an FFM threesome video and see how it affects her. Tell her how you’ve always wondered how these men feel having 2 women in bed. Feed off of her reactions and once you feel that she may be open to the idea, go ahead and ask her whether or not she’d be up for it. Don’t bring up her friend initially. You don’t want her to feel like you just want to get into her best friend’s pants. She must, at all times, feel like and be the center of your affection, before, during, and after a threesome. She’s your goddess and any other woman joining you would be just that, another woman. Make sure you embed this in her mind if you’ll have any shot at having a threesome with her.