The Secret to Getting a Girl to Notice You Online
It’s all about first impressions! Especially when it comes to online dating. Good looking women get bombarded with messages constantly. Messing up your initial approach will have her reaching for the block button in a hurry. With all this competition on dating sites, what’s the secret to getting a girl to notice you?
How do you go from having zero options, to having to squeeze multiple women into your schedule? You improve your initial approach. Doing this will result in many, many more contacts which in turn results in a lot more dates.
Here is how most men approach hookup sites.
They sign up, upload a few photos, fill out their bio and start browsing profiles. When they stumble upon a local female that interests them, they send a generic, boring message like “hey!” “sup!” “nice pic” or something along these lines. Sound familiar? That approach is going to get you nowhere. Women get these types of messages all day long and unless your photo is enough on its own to grab her attention, you’re on a path to nowhere. If you’ve got Johnny Depp’s eyes, Brad Pitt’s lips and David Beckham’s hair, you’ll probably do just fine. If not, it’s going to take a little more effort.
The secret to making an irresistible first approach is glancing at her profile, mainly her interests. A quick review of her interests will give you tons to break the ice with. Finding something you’re interested in as well is always a plus as this will give you a lot more to talk about when she does reply. Start by asking a question, not by making a comment. Women find it hard to pass up the chance of talking about something they’re passionate about, and breaking the ice with a question gives her the fuel she needs.
- If she’s into movies, ask her if she’s seen X movie and what she thought about so and so’s acting.
- If she likes hiking, ask her if she’s ever had the chance to visit the Inca Trails.
- Is she into travel? “If you can visit any place in the world where would you go?”
You get the point.
We live in the Information Age and google is your friend. Even if you don’t know too much about a particular subject, information is just a few clicks away. Spend a few extra minutes tailoring your ice breaker to each member that interests you and I assure you, you’ll have a very interesting time on whatever hookup or dating site you’re on. It really is all about getting a girl to notice you initially, then, once you have her attention, a little bit of charm will take you a long way.
