Sex-Dater
Sex-Dater is a coin-based adult chat site that has been running since 2017, so it is not some here-today-gone-tomorrow domain. Signing up and looking around is free.
The catch, and it is basically the whole catch, is that talking to anyone costs coins you buy with real money, and those coins drain fast. It runs about fifty coins per message on the reports we have seen, which is roughly two to three euros every time you hit send.
Here is the part to understand before you load your wallet. Sex-Dater does not pretend everyone on it is a local single waiting to meet you. Its own terms describe running fictitious “system profiles,” operated by contractors or software to keep users chatting, which it frames as entertainment. Reviewers go further, reporting recycled photos pulled from adult and social accounts, plus some AI-generated faces.
It is run out of Cyprus by a company called Meet Us Media, and it is one of a cluster of near-identical sites, Juicy-Adult, Flirt4Adults and SexyDates among them, all sharing the same layout and back end. The traffic is large but heavily European, with Hungary leading by a mile.
None of that means you cannot enjoy the chat. It just means you should treat it as paid entertainment and keep an eye on the coin counter.
Below is how it works, what it costs, and what others made of it. Cast your vote and add your own experience at the bottom.
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Information
URL: sex-dater.com
Year of Establishment: 2017
Adult material on the lander: Yes
Mobile App: No
Whitelabel: Yes (part of the Meet Us Media network)
Target Group: Straight, Gay, Lesbian Adult Dating
Operator: Meet Us Media Ltd, Nicosia, Cyprus
Traffic Statistics
The figures below are third-party estimates rather than official numbers.
Estimated monthly traffic: around 3.2 million visits
Average Visit Duration: about 1 minute 25 seconds
Pages Per Visit: about 2.3
Bounce Rate: about 59%
Website Authority: 26 out of 100
Top 5 Countries Using Sex-Dater
Hungary: 42%
France: 8%
United States: 8%
Germany: 7%
Portugal: 6%
Package Costs
Sex-Dater runs on coins, not a monthly subscription. Registration is free and drops a tiny starter balance in your account. After that you buy coin packs with real money to do the one thing that matters, which is sending messages.
Each message costs somewhere around fifty coins. The prices sit behind registration and shift around, but as documented the packs have run from roughly €9 for 200 coins up to €799 for 25,000, with the common mid-tier packs near €19, €49, €99 and €199, payable by credit card and Paysafecard. Work it out per message and it is one of the pricier ways to chat online, on the order of two to three euros a message.
Two things worth checking before you pay: the coins are non-refundable, and a number of users report auto top-up or recurring charges that are easy to miss. Read the payment screen slowly and keep an eye on your statement.
According to its own terms and multiple independent reviews, Sex-Dater is operated by Meet Us Media Ltd, a company based in Nicosia, Cyprus, and it runs on the same template as sister sites like Juicy-Adult, Flirt4Adults and SexyDates. Unlike platforms that swear every member is real, Sex-Dater states in its terms that it operates fictitious “system profiles,” run by contractors or software, to keep the conversation going for entertainment.
That does not make chatting on it a crime, or even necessarily a dull evening, but it does change what you are actually paying for. We are not calling it either way. Weigh the coin costs against what you are really after, read what other people below have said, and add your own experience.
If you’ve used Sex-Dater, help the rest of the community out by leaving a comment below describing your experience.
Works great for me. I’m not looking for serious dating, so if you’re looking for something with no strings attached, I’d recommend it.
My experience was similar to Mike’s. No one responds. No one is active. Hooking up on this site is more difficult than hooking up on Tinder. And that’s saying a lot! lol. Did everything right. Crafted a clever profile, uploaded my best pics, messaged every female in my area, and didn’t get any replies.
No thanks! I’ve used 4 of these exact looking sites in the past couples of months and every time I don’t meet anyone. I keep seeing the same profiles on all these sites and the girls never respond no matter which site I message them on.