TenderMeets
A subscription normally settles the question of who you are allowed to write to. The TenderMeets terms of use leave that question open. They say purchasing a subscription “does not guarantee unlimited messaging capabilities unless expressly stated otherwise”, and that a “separate purchase of additional packages may be required to communicate with other users beyond the limitations applicable to your membership level”. The same document sells those message packages to free members and paying members alike. What the contract reserves, then, is a second purchase after the first one.
Everything in front of that clause is softer. An age panel loads over the homepage first, warning of adult content “not appropriate for minors due to potential effects on emotional development”. Behind it the headline reads “Find a cutie who will be dear to you”, a counter beside the sign up form runs from “Searching for matches…” to “115 girls found…”, and the listing the site writes for search engines invites you to “begin hooking up with the hottest girls”. That is the pitch. The contract underneath it is a subscription that renews.
Where the Members Land on It
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The Basics Behind the Sign Up Form
Sign up domain: tendermeets.com, registered 20 February 2018, paid through February 2030
Operator named in section 1 of the terms: Milada Ltd, Landscape house, Baldonnell business park, Dublin 22 D22 P3K7, Ireland
Data controller: Milada Ltd again, at that same Dublin address
Copyright notice under every page: “© Copyright 2026, Milada Ltd”
Company registration number: absent from the terms, the privacy policy and the billing policy
Imprint link in the footer: dead, returns Page not found
Data protection officer, contracted out: GDPGuard Ltd
Product: subscriptions that renew, with message packages sold on top
Payment routes in the terms: the payment page, or card details given over the telephone
Support, cancellation and complaints: support@tendermeets.com, complain@tendermeets.com, +44 3444824945
Two Estimates of the Audience, Three Years Apart
StatShow, which calculates over the last three months, puts tendermeets.com at roughly 23,820 monthly visitors and 52,470 monthly pageviews. StatShow entry for tendermeets.com
The much larger number belongs to an older snapshot. HypeStat lists 1.4 million monthly visits, and its own report stamps the last update at 1,083 days ago, which places that count around August 2023. HypeStat entry for tendermeets.com
One number on the site is not an estimate at all but a legal ceiling. Its Digital Services Act page puts average monthly active recipients in the European Union “well below 45 million”, calculated as of 7 August 2026. TenderMeets Digital Services Act page
Two shots: the homepage and the registration form. Open the registration shot full size for what the form asks for before it will let you in.
From the Trial to the Monthly Charge
Nothing is charged to look around. The terms state that “There is no fee payable to access the Services as a Guest or as a Free Member”, and that “JOIN FOR FREE” means the account costs nothing and comes with limited access to features and areas of the service.
Six lengths are on sale in the terms, “1 day, 3 day or 1 week trials; and/or 1, 3 or 6 month packages”, and the shortest of them does not hold its shape. Whichever bank and card you used decides that: the billing policy says the trial “may vary from one (1) to seven (7) days”, then that when it ends the subscription “will automatically convert to our monthly membership plan for which you will be charged a monthly fee unless canceled”. TenderMeets billing policy
What happens next is printed in capitals: “THIS MEANS THAT THE MINIMUM DURATION OF YOUR CONTRACT WILL BE FOR THE INITIAL PERIOD YOU SELECT (E.G. 1 MONTH), AND THIS WILL AUTOMATICALLY RENEW UNTIL YOU CANCEL YOUR SERVICE.” The fee itself is set out “on the payment page at the point of making payment”.
Message packages sit outside all of it, described as “additional packages that allow you to send a specified number of messages to other users, regardless of whether you are a Free Member or a Full Member”.
A card short of funds gets two answers. The terms say the site “may still provide full access to the selected package for the intended period”. The billing policy instead reserves the right to sell a shorter period than the one picked, or to bill a thirtieth of a month every day until the member cancels. Some accounts may also be asked to prove a card works, by a debit of “a small, random amount of $0.5 to $5” returned within three to five days.
Three Documents, and the Points Where They Part
Section 1 of the terms names the party you contract with: the website “is operated by Milada Ltd registered at Landscape house, Baldonnell business park, Dublin 22 D22 P3K7, Ireland”. That name is carried right through, into the privacy policy and the footer of every page. What none of the three documents carries is a company registration number, and the footer’s own Imprint link, which is where one would sit, lands on a Page not found. The domain has been held since February 2018. TenderMeets terms of use Registry record for tendermeets.com
The deadline for stopping a renewal has two answers. Clause (G) at the head of the terms requires you to “act at least 3 days (that is, 72 hours) prior to the renewal date”. Section 8(A) of the same document asks only that you terminate before the end of the period you have paid for, and the billing policy allows the automatic payment to be cancelled “at any time before the date of the recurring payment”. Anyone counting backwards from their renewal date is working from three clauses and two rules.
Asking for money back has a clock on it and a consequence attached. Three months is the window the terms allow from the disputed transaction, a recurring billing gives back one payment and not the series, and whoever is refunded may then be listed “to the negative databases of our associated authorized billing agents”. A statutory route runs alongside for residents of the UK and EU, 14 days from confirmation for “a pro-rated refund based on your usage of the Service”. The billing policy prints a blunter rule than any of that, no refund once the subscription is in use, and credits it to terms that do not contain it.
Only one passage in the terms deals with accounts nobody joined for, and it grants a narrow permission: “internal technical accounts solely for the purposes of quality assurance, security testing, and feature optimization”, which “are used for internal maintenance and are not intended for social interaction with users”. The word fictitious does not appear in the document.
One more thing sits in the privacy policy, under a heading of its own, “ABOUT OUR GROUP COMPANIES”: “We own many different social and dating websites and mobile apps. We call these our Group Companies.” No brand name follows it anywhere in the document. TenderMeets privacy policy
Cancelling, Deleting and Everything Else People Ask
How do I cancel my TenderMeets subscription?
Logged in, you are looking for “My Account” and then a link reading Remove Your Account, which is where section 8(B) of the terms puts it. The billing policy sends you somewhere else for the same errand, “My Settings”, so if the first is not there the second is worth a look.
Two routes work without logging in, the telephone on +44 3444824945 and email to support@tendermeets.com. An emailed request will not be actioned on its own: the terms require “your profile information (screenname and email address)” with it, so they can match it to a member.
Read one clause before handing the job to a cancellation service or asking your bank to block it. The terms say: “A cancellation initiated by any other party or entity, will not be considered a valid cancellation and you will continue to be charged.”
When do I have to cancel by?
The documents give two deadlines. Clause (G) at the head of the terms is the strict one: you “must act at least 3 days (that is, 72 hours) prior to the renewal date”. The billing policy is the loose one, allowing cancellation “at any time before the date of the recurring payment”, and section 8(A) of the terms asks only that you finish before the paid period does.
Both are live on the site today and neither document acknowledges the other. The 72 hour clause is the earliest of the three deadlines, so cancelling at least three days out is the only way to be inside all of them.
How do I delete my TenderMeets account?
By the same route as cancelling, on the site’s own account of it. The terms say you may cancel your subscription and membership, free or paid, through the “My Account” section and the link to Remove Your Account, which puts both jobs behind one link rather than two.
That matters because on many sites they are separate errands, and stopping the billing leaves the profile up. Here the document treats the free membership and the paid subscription as ending together. If the account is closed by phone or email instead, the same identifying details apply, your screenname and the registered email address.
Is TenderMeets legit?
Take it as far as the paperwork goes. One company is named and it is named consistently: Milada Ltd, of Landscape house, Baldonnell business park, Dublin 22, given as the operator in section 1 of the terms, as the data controller in the privacy policy, and in the copyright notice printed under every page. The domain itself dates to February 2018, so eight years.
What is not printed is a company registration number. It does not appear in the terms, the privacy policy or the billing policy, and the Imprint link in the site’s own footer, which is where a number would normally sit, returns a page not found.
One document on the site is kept to the day. Its Digital Services Act page carries an average of monthly active recipients in the European Union, calculated over the previous six months as of 7 August 2026, and states it as well below 45 million.
Does a paid TenderMeets membership let you message everyone?
Not on the wording of the contract. The terms say purchasing a subscription does not guarantee unlimited messaging unless it is expressly stated otherwise, and that a separate purchase of additional packages may be required to communicate with other users beyond the limits that apply to your membership level.
Those packages are described elsewhere in the same document as add ons that let you send a set number of messages, and they are sold to free members and full members alike. The clause is a reserved right rather than a description of what happens at every tier: it says a further purchase may be required, not that one is.
There is a related line under the “Promote My Account” service. Sending its pre written ice breakers is free, and the terms note that recipients “may be required to obtain a Paid Membership to engage in a full conversation”.
Can you pay TenderMeets by telephone, and what number do they publish?
Card details can be given over the phone. Section 4B(3) of the terms is headed “PAYMENT PROCESSING VIA MAIL ORDER TELEPHONE ORDER (MOTO)” and sets out how that works, including this instruction: “Please be informed that we do not request your CVV number, you have to enter this number yourself.”
One telephone number is published in those documents, +44 3444824945, a UK line. It is printed twice, once in the section on cancelling and once in the section on complaints, so it is the number the site itself gives for both of the jobs a login will not do.
The written routes are support@tendermeets.com for support and cancellation, complain@tendermeets.com for a complaint, and a postal address in Dublin 22 for anything sent by letter.
What does a free TenderMeets account get you?
Two of the three access levels cost nothing. A Guest has not registered at all, a Free Member has registered and bought nothing, and the terms are explicit that no fee is payable for either. “JOIN FOR FREE”, the same document says, means limited access to features and areas of the service.
Where that limit bites is on being contacted. The terms warn that if you are not a subscriber, other people cannot use the website to reach you, whether they are paying or not, so an unpaid profile is visible and cannot be written to.
There is one way past that which is not a subscription. The message packages are offered “regardless of whether you are a Free Member or a Full Member”, so on the wording of the terms the thing that opens a conversation here is the package rather than the tier you are on.
Tell the Next Person What the Membership Actually Got You
Did a subscription on its own let you write to people, or was a message package put in front of you after you had already paid? And when that counter said girls had been found, were the people who replied anywhere near you?
If you cancelled, the detail worth leaving is which of their two deadlines you were held to, and whether the phone line or the email did the job.