TrueSwingers
TrueSwingers is one of the older names in the swinger scene, and it is a community site rather than a swipe-and-go hookup app. It is built for couples and singles into the lifestyle, and it leans as much on chat rooms, forums, galleries and events as it does on one-to-one matching.
It is a real, established platform, run by a US operator (listed as Socialco Media), with a member base reported in the low hundreds of thousands. The crowd skews mid-thirties and older, mostly men, and mostly American, with a solid European following behind that.
Here is a point in its favour. Unlike the coin sites, TrueSwingers does not lock messaging behind a paywall. A free account gets you into the chat rooms, forums, galleries and events, and lets you send a handful of private messages an hour. Paying mainly lifts that message cap and unlocks the extras, rather than being the only way to say hello.
The common knock on it is that it can feel more like a place to watch and chat than a place to actually meet. Several reviewers describe lively enough forums and cams but slim odds of lining up a real meet with local couples, plus the usual warnings to watch for the odd fake or bot profile. Trust-check sites land it in the middle: real and reasonably safe, but go in with your guard up.
Below is how it works, what membership costs, and what other people made of it. Cast your vote and add your own experience at the bottom.
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Information
URL: trueswingers.com
Year of Establishment: A long-running swinger community, on the scene for many years
Adult material on the lander: Yes
Mobile App: No
Whitelabel: No
Target Group: Couples and singles into the swinger lifestyle (straight, gay and lesbian)
Operator: Listed as Socialco Media, United States
Traffic Statistics
The figures below are third-party estimates rather than official numbers.
Estimated monthly traffic: around 170,000 visits
Average Visit Duration: about 7 and a half minutes
Pages Per Visit: about 11 (high, a sign people dig into the forums and galleries)
Bounce Rate: about 28%
Website Authority: 17 out of 100
Top 5 Countries Using TrueSwingers
United States: 24%
Italy: 14%
Austria: 11%
Denmark: 9%
Ireland: 8%
Package Costs
The important thing first: the basic features, messaging included, do not require payment. A free account can set up a profile, join the chat rooms and forums, browse galleries, see events, and send a limited number of private messages per hour (reported at around five). There is no trial and no coin system.
Paid membership is where the caps come off. It mainly raises the messaging limit, up to around sixty an hour, and unlocks the extras. Pricing runs as a real subscription through CCBill: roughly €18 for three months or €41 for a year, with a one-off lifetime option around €118. A recurring plan keeps billing until you cancel, so if you go with the three-month or yearly option, set a reminder.
TrueSwingers is a genuine, long-standing swinger community rather than a throwaway skin, run by a US operator (listed as Socialco Media) and billed through CCBill, a mainstream adult payment processor. That basic legitimacy is not really in question.
What is up for debate is how much you will actually get out of it. Some members enjoy the forums, cams and events, others say it is better for watching and chatting than for setting up real meets, and trust-check sites flag the usual risk of the occasional fake or bot. We are not calling it either way. Weigh the free access and the community side against the meet-up odds, read what others below have said, and add your own take.
If you’ve used TrueSwingers, help the rest of the community out by leaving a comment below describing your experience.